You’ve the heard the saying many times,

Others can’t love you until you learn to love yourself

Perhaps truer words have never been spoken. When dealing with yourself and others, people watch your behaviour and take your lead. If you treat yourself badly, you are teaching others to treat you that way. If you don’t think you are awesome and worthy, others won’t either. Add mirror neurons to the mix and keep in mind that, even in the moment, your state and emotion will strongly affect those around you.

 

What if you could love yourself for real, genuinely and authentically? What if you could embrace your quirks, remember your strengths, and learn to play with your mistakes and weaknesses?

 

I help people in 8 key areas of
Self Love

 

1. 1. 1. 1. 1. 1. Self-sabotage and Attack
               2. Body Image
               3. Masculinity
               4. Multicultural Identity
               5. Life Purpose
               6. Goal Achievement
               7. Self – Care
               8. Self- Knowing

Each of these areas are broad and if there is something else on your mind, I would bet that it is included within these broader categories. The reason I am passionate about Self Love & Esteem is because these have been major areas of challenges and growth for me.

 

My Personal Experience

For decades of my life, there was a voice inside my head forcing negative thoughts on me that I hated. The voice constantly criticized me and those around me. There were even disturbing thoughts (not desires) that caused a lot of guilt and inner conflict.

 

During these long years, I also hated my body. I saw myself as short, with a fat basketball stomach, and literally covered all the mirrors in my house. I seriously did this. I  wanted to change my name (I came very close) and absolutely hated my skin color.

 

I was also aimless without a purpose. Like a leaf blowing in the wind, I was pulled every which way at random. My goals were unclear, I could not relax, and didn’t know who I was or wanted to be.

 

Looking back, I am a completely different person now. It almost feels like another life. The voice is mostly gone, my vision grounds me, and love flows in abundance to myself and others.

 

Be Your Own Best Friend

I don’t want you to feel the same emotional pain that I felt for over two decades. The psychological labyrinth of confusion is not a fun place to explore.

 

You can be your own worst enemy or best friend. I am here to help you with the latter by guiding you up a ladder. We haven’t met yet but I am 100% certain there is beauty and strength within you. Let’s bring that out again. The confidence will help you in all areas of life including your mental health, finances, and relationships.

 

 

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I understand that this type of ‘stuff’ can be hard to talk about. I guarantee you a place free of judgement and full of empathy. There is nothing you can tell me that I haven’t heard before. I am here to serve you and that is a privilege I take seriously.