Do you long to connect…

with the love that brought you all together in the first place? Are you tired of growing apart and having the same arguments again and again?  When are you going to have the sex, emotion, and peace that you really want?

 

 

Non-monogamy can flourish because it brings variety, excitement, and more support than traditional (perhaps religious or cultural) models allow. I personally love the adventure, freedom, and multiple deep connections. Like any dynamic, these relationships take hard smart work, and when done right, can be very fulfilling.

When complications or conflict arise, meeting with a non-mog friendly therapist can help.

 

Whether you are well versed in non-monogamy or just beginning to explore this option, I create space to explore what best fits your life and identity.

 

 Counselling will help you Both/All to…

Connect Deeper
Understand each other’s’ blueprint, values, priorities, motivations, attachment styles, expectations, and love languages.

Learn communication strategies that focus on what is most important to all. Prevent heartbreak, breakup, and rekindle love.

Learn how to show and reinforce their commitment to each other and their relationship while exploring other romantic or intimated connections

Get Clarity
Simplify and overcome challenges that centre around boundaries, rulemaking, jealousy, resentment, anxiety, and fear of loss. Forge agreements and get on the same page when it comes to relationship escalators, time management, parenting, romance, sexuality, open/close systems, long term/short term, monogamy/non-monogamy, and much more.

Resolve Conflict (Past and/or Current)
Overcome problems such as infidelity, lies, power imbalances, and/or conflicting desires.   Move on from past events and gain closure. Put an end to the constant bickering that seems to keep resurfacing. Stop the blame game and never-ending power struggle. There may be anger, resentment, and lost trust that must be brought to light and lovingly rebuilt.

Have Better Sex
As you can see from other pages on this website, sex can be complicated before it is fun. I’m here to positively guide your relationship in the realms of addiction, sexuality, fetishes, and a host of other challenges that are preventing you all from the intimacy you deserve.

And More…

 

You and your partner/s deserve a satisfying relationship that is present, fulfilling, supportive, and satisfying. This is the reason you got together in the first place!

 

This growth is only possible with the right therapist

 

The wrong therapist may discriminate, ask intrusive identity questions, or even worst, pathologize your life-style choices. Unfortunately, many relationship ‘experts’ utilize a lens that is narrow, monogamous-centered, and overly influenced by religion or culture. This bias re-enforces a negative stigma and can reduce your values to mere sex, acting out, or a temporary thrill.

 

I know first-hand how difficult it can be to find a counsellor when there is a fear of being judged, criticized, or made to feel that your lifestyle is the problem.

 

In contrast, I know (personally and professionally) the wonderful possibilities and challenges that non-monogamous relationships can bring. I have a history of helping historically marginalized and oppressed communities that don’t get the fair share of respect they deserve simply because it is alternative to the mainstream default.

 

I know the difference between a challenge presenting due to an issue from non-monogamy living versus a challenge occurring in a person’s life who also happens to be non-monogamous.

 

I believe that it all relationship dynamics are valid and have the potential to be satisfying when done right. I’m here to be discrete make sure everyone feels safe and understood. I promise not to take sides and maintain mutual respect. You will find me open minded and easy to talk to.

 

The reason I am passionate about non-monogamy is because I have been on multiple sides of the equation in my personal relationships. As an open-minded adventurer, I have experienced many dynamics, orientations, and lifestyles.

 

Before I invested in education, I experienced my fair share of relationship issues. Sexual, physical, emotional, you name it. I’ve had so many arguments that didn’t need to happen. I wasted time, hurt people, and experienced pain myself…again, none of this needed to happen.

 

Now, my relationships are so fulfilling, this all seems like a past life.

 

The blue stripe of the flag symbolizes communication and honesty with all partners; red represents passion and love; and black is a reference to the closeted nature of many polyamorous relationships that are hidden because of intolerance or possible rejection.

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I don’t want you to feel the same pain that I felt. This psychological labyrinth of confusion and drama is not a fun place to explore.

 

Whether you are an individual, couple, triad, or moresome, I am here to walk you through the path that will offer you the most benefit. We will craft a personal approach for YOUR situation. One that embodies mutual respect, care, and has everyone feeling healthy, satisfied, and win/win.

 

I understand that this type of ‘stuff’ can be hard to talk about. I guarantee you a place free of judgement and full of empathy. There is nothing you can tell me that I haven’t heard before. I am here to serve you and that is a privilege I take seriously.