Finding a therapist, who is a good match, is important. The wrong therapist can create bigger problems and the correct one can speed YOU up YOUR mountain. And if you don’t do anything, it just gets worse.
Over the last 6 years, I’ve worked with the worst and best practitioners:
- Whether it’s via my practice (I provide therapy to therapists too)
- The Peer Therapy group I co-run
- The mental health workshops I facilitate
- Or my own therapists & supervisors
Why does this matter to you?
Because I’ve seen what works—and what doesn’t.
I’ve experienced the hurdles of finding the right support and how the wrong match can lead to frustration.
Compatibility is key, and you’re already taking the hardest step: you’re reading this this now.
Everyone seeks support ‘late’ but the ones who give up, well they live silent lives of desperation. You’re not letting that happen to you.
Congrats!
Oh, by the way..
Hi, I’m Kevin (Singh)
The pleasure is all mine, and yours too, but more on that later haha
Many clients have left their own therapists to work with me. This was not something I ever expected to happen.
This Start Here section is designed to give you everything you need to know, so you can decide with clarity and confidence, if I’m the right therapist for you.
You will learn how I can practically support you to achieve your goals.
If you’re here to improve your Sex Life & Romantic Relationships, you’re in the right place.
My mission is to help in these two key areas of life. I am building a world where people have certainty, pleasure, and healthy relationships with themselves, others, and sex itself.
Confusion, shame, dysfunction, and miscommunication are no longer barriers and pleasure is plentiful.
I’m passionate about this because I’ve faced soo many of these challenges myself.
Thanks to customized therapy and education, I’ve been able to overcome various sexual dysfunctions, unhelpful emotions, and difficult relationship dynamics.
Now, there’s a lot more joy and a lot less stress.
I found my way through and can help you do the same.
What I Can Help You With
Many people settle when it comes to intimacy. They’re either unable to have sex or are settling for functional but unfulfilling experiences.
As a sex therapist, I help people to cultivate healthy and Satisfying sex lives.
Together, we’ll address the barriers holding you back and work towards a life full of peacefulness, authenticity, and fun.
I help clients with:
- Sexual Dysfunctions
Erectile dysfunction and Premature/Delayed Ejaculation - Physical Health Issues
Libido, hormones, fatigue, fitness, and anatomy - Emotional Well-being
Anxiety
Depression
Guilt / shame
Self-Love and Confidence - Psychological Complexes
Unhelpful narratives and thinking patterns
Excessive Thinking (disconnection with present bodily senses) - Sexual Identity
Understand Erotic Blueprints (preferences, fetishes, boundaries, and curiosities) - Addiction
Pornography, sex, and substance use - Relationship Dynamics
Authentic intimacy, conflict resolution, emotional connection, sexual compatibility, breakup anxiety, people pleasing, jealousy, and trust (infidelity if relevant).
Imagine feeling confident in your desires, looking forward to intimacy
Imagine having so much knowledge & certainty, that making decisions is easy
Imagine connecting with a partner in ways that feel natural and joyful
It’s not a fantasy—it’s entirely possible with the correct guidance and tools
Other Therapists Comment on Kevin:
You’ll be able to hear from my clients in future pages but for now…
Kevin helps people to navigate the modern world of dating, sex & relationships. You will find him positive, empathetic, balanced, and non-judgmental. I particularly like his structured and practical approach. I recommend you check out his website asap!
Dana Kaake, Registered Psychotherapist
Kevin is empathetic and exudes a certain optimism that is encouraging. He’s open, easy-going, grounded – the kind of guy that you can feel comfortable talking about sex and relationships with.
Corey Turnbull, Registered Psychotherapist, MSc, OAMHP, CHT
I have been privileged to benefit from Kevin’s wisdom and knowledge, as I’ve sought his input on some of my more challenging cases. He’s particularly adept at issues around sexuality and relationships. Kevin listens empathetically and validates your experience; at the same time, he provides practical exercises and suggestions to speed up progress. I would highly recommend Kevin to anyone seeking support for sex and relationship challenges.
Laval Martin, MSW, RSW, Registered Psychotherapist
Qualifications
In graduate school, I was the representative of my Master’s program and advocated for the mental health of fellow students. Now, I am a Registered Social Worker, Psychotherapist, and Member of the Ontario Association of Social Work (OASW), Ontario College of Social Workers (OCSWSSW) and Canadian Association of Social Workers (CASW). Later on, I’ll explain why I purposefully chose social work to help people.
Beyond direct therapy, I am passionate about psychoeducation with an emphasis on Practicality. In training then partnership with the (prestigious) Crisis and Trauma Resource Institute (CTRI) and Centre for Leadership & Workplace Performance (ACHIEVE), I travel across Canada facilitating mental health workshops where I teach social workers, counsellors, therapists, and other helping professionals.
Some of the relevant workshops I facilitate (in person) include:
- Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT): Tools for Thinking Differently
- Counselling: The Essential Skills
- Motivational interviewing: Strategies for Supporting Change
- Mental Health Awareness and Support
- Concurrent Disorders and Addiction
- Ethics of Helping
- Wellness Strategies: Stress, Compassion, Fatigue, and Resilience
Inside info warning
One major reason I became a facilitator is because I strongly believe that a private practice therapist should have 2 sources of income. If not, they may try to prolong sessions and cause challenges to get unnecessarily complicated. Of course it’s not always like that but when it is, it sucks bad.
Having a second income source in the mental health sector allows me to focus on helping you to solve problems CUSTOM & FAST
# Brief Solution Focused Therapy
Supervision
Please note that Every licensed helping professional providing psychotherapy must be supervised. This applies to all practitioners, whether they have been working for 5 years or 50.
My practice is supervised by Laval Martin (MSW, RSW). With extensive training and experience in Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), I purposely reached out to Laval because his skillset of Emotional Regulation fills out my approach well. DBT improves relationships and sex by focusing on acceptance, change, presence, and accepting ALL emotions.
In previous years, my practice was closely supervised by the well-known and respected sex therapist, Rob Peach. Mr. Peach is a Registered Social Worker (OCSWSSW), Clinical Member of the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Abusers (ATSA), Associate Member for the Board of Examiners in Sex Therapy and Counselling of Ontario (BESTCO), and a Professional Member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counsellors and Therapists (AASECT).
Rob and I presented a psycho-education workshop to BESTCO that was appreciated and praised.
Continued Competence
I have had the pleasure of collaborating with organizations such as the Canadian Mental Health Association (CMHA), Sex Matters (CP24), Provider Files, Healthing.ca, and more.
I co-run a weekly Peer Supervision Therapy Group where I support licensed helping professionals with tools and strategies so that they can help more people.
Staying current with evidence-based research is a priority for me. My license requires that
I’m always learning, whether through engaging with thought leaders like Huberman Labs, Brene Brown, and Esther Perel, or through regular courses, supervision, and personal coaching.
I’ve also invested deeply in my own growth, personally and professionally, with over $25K dedicated to self-development. This path has shaped me into a more insightful and effective therapist, and I’m still evolving. Please ignore this number for yourself, mine is a path of Identity Level Change and complex post-traumatic dress disorder (PTSD). Your solutions will be wayyy cheaper and faster.
Recently, I was honored to contribute to a documentary about Self Respect & Love.
The director’s feedback was humbling:
Thank you so much for being part of the creation of this film. Your voice and perspective was eye opening for me and added much depth to the conversation.
– Amen Jafri
In my personal life, I love to hang out with my friends. These are fun people from a variety of different social circles, lifestyles, and backgrounds. Together we like to travel, play chess, crack up at stand-up comedy, and overanalyze movies. Like, really over analyze movies.
OKAY ENOUGH ABOUT ME !
Let’s see what my clients have to say >>>
